Being a talkative partner

Talk, talk and talk. That’s what a friend of mine does to keep his wife happy. And why shouldn’t he, if that helps him trim down the gap between his wife and him. Otherwise, he is rather a quiet guy, workaholic, busy in his own world.

A few quick reasons he gave me when I cornered him on behaving so differently nice with his wife and everyone else in his life. Here’s how he went –

1) My talks gives her a feeling of ‘staying in a hostel & sharing a room with a male partner’ Of course there’s more than sharing a room that we do.

2) On a lighter note, I don’t have to ask her to tell me her secret. She just can’t keep it to herself, nor do I.

3) If I have any complains about household chores, I can easily tell her in rather a friendly manner.

4) Excessive talking might sound quiet annoying, but it helps me vent out my feelings, stored office gossips & stuff that I can’t share with my friends.

5) There are times, when we don’t make love or don’t feel like doing so. I talk to her and compensate for it. She OBVIOUSLY understands and is definitely happy that I just don’t go to sleep on my side.

6) Crack up some quick jokes with her. Your partner is sure to love it

7) Talks with your spouse leave no space for miscommunication

So for the all the men, think over when your wife or girlfriend complains of you not giving time to her. May be she means, you are not talking enough to her. Get into the shoes of women and just talk. Just get chatty. No matter if you are a quiet person.

Happy talking.

Just wanna be 'Silly' with YOU

It's not a thought that popped my head today. I keep thinking over it every now and then. Don't know where it ever came across your mind. But I just wanna be 'silly' with you. love that smile and that curious expression on your face as I know how would you react.

Passion is what everyone craves for but guess I am a little different. I want to be silly with you. May be because I know both of us feel so passionately for each other. Silly is actually a silly word, but means so much more for me. I want to see the mad side of the world with you. Laugh with you on the most trivial matter. Want to exchange glances and burst into laughter when we see something embarrassing. Giggle and make fun of each other.

As Rose Franken rightly said,"Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly."

Excuses Galore!

Its not been long, rather its been very long indeed. Days came and passed by and then the gap became long & longer than expected. But this time, I am back with a promise to keep. A long thought over decision to just keep blogging no matter what happens. I would continue to blog regularly as I did earlier.

When I sit and ponder over the reasons that kept me away from blog, the result that I conclude gives me a good laugh. One look at the excuses would clearly state me as the 'laziest person' alive on the earth, though I am not one. Or may be I don't consider myself as one. anyways, whether I am one or not one is beyond a discussion.

Though most of us have a blogger in us and have something or the other to pen down everyday. Here are some of the reasons that hold us from letting our heart out everyday.

• Busy with work in office
• Daily chores keep us engaged
• Some feel its a tedious task to switch on PC/laptop
• Ok, its just today, tomorrow I'll blog for sure. AND, tomorrow never comes.

Learning from Each Other

Being in a relationship, there are several things one can possibly do for nurturing one's relationship. Its important that both the partners understand each other for a compatible and strong bonding.

Its important that the partners on both the ends should have strong feelings for each other. Many a times, couples find it difficult to stick to each other despite being in love. While one of them is too patient, the other might be aggressive. Living in a nuclear family and packed with work, one may not find time to discuss the problems at home with an elder person and seek advice.



Observe & Learn from Each Other

You may not be an expert at solving problems, but your partner may be a complete show stealer. He or she may find solutions in a moment. Don't get bogged down by his or her expertise in doing anything, rather just observe quietly and learn the art of problem solving.

You could have be a zero tolerance attitude, but your partner might just be the coolest person in the entire world. Such a variation might be dangerous for a relationship. The best way one can work towards a smoother relationship is by learning various attributes from each other.

Keeping an Hour Aside for Each Other - Romantic Idea for the Busy & Married Couples

If romance & being together for each other was meant for weekends, then why would couples marry each other?? Busy with work and so many things happening around, many couples confess to spend time with each other only on weekends. But does that keeps your relationship steady and moreover 'SMOOTH'?

To nurture your relationship, just follow one RULE religiously to keep your love life intact forever.

The Rule is to -'Keep a Relaxed Hour Aside for Each Other'

You may defend yourself and say that every night while sleeping you spend time with each other. But that's not the time that we are referring to.

It is advisable that you mutually decide one hour from your busy schedule to be spend with each other. Make sure it is not the same time that you spend while making love at times at night.

An Hour for Each Other - The evening hour is the best time to be spent together.

Sit Together - Enjoy tea, coffee, soft drink or some nutritious snacks together. Take turns to prepare the food or drink for each other.

Talk and Spit out Everything You have in Mind - He or she is your partner and you can definitely confide almost everything in them.

Share yourself - While you are busy the entire day, you may not be able to call up and share something. Make use of this one hour and share all you wanted to since morning.
Share Jokes - Talk light and laugh with each other. You have had the entire day for everything serious around you, but this particular hour just make sure you laugh with each other. Share jokes or any old memories to feel light and relaxed.

Soaked in Love-Keeping Memories Fresh in Mind

Hope you had a wonderful kiss day, hug day and definitely a very special Valentine's day. Now that many special days have past and its time for you to preserve the memories of these days. Its important to value your love always and understand that how lucky your are to be someone's beloved. Days gone by will never come back. One will definitely enjoy the promise day, rose day and valentine's day next year, but will not be able to live the same moments again. Things may be better next time, but for that you need to wait for one long year. :)

Its been a raining love everywhere and your are soaked in love. All you need to do to cherish your love moments is to keep the memories fresh in mind. Just live the moment as it will never come again in life.

Promises to Keep

Meant to be broken, why do they hold an important place in any relationship? Whether its the relation of a couple in love or of a child and father, be it any relation, promises are a part of everyone's life. Here is a poem that I have loved for long and felt like sharing this today on Promise Day.

I promise to be your warm spot to cuddle up to
when you feel cold
I promise
to be your soft place to land if you
should fall
I promise to be the first
one to say I am sorry
(even if I was right)
I promise to be there for
you in all of your times of
joy and sorrow
I promise to support you no
matter what your
decision (even if I don't agree )
I promise to make a
new memory with you each
and every day
I promise to love you without change

I promise to make you laugh
I promise to make you cry
I promise to give
you strength when you are weak
I promise to love you forever
I promise
to cherish you and your love
I promise to compromise with you
I promise
to make you and our children my first
priority
I promise to never take
your love for granted
I promise to never lose faith in you
I promise to
never give you a reason to distrust me
I promise to always trust you
I promise to work with you to resolve our conflicts
I promise to always be
proud of you
I promise to never let you feel alone in this world
I promise
to find new ways everyday to keep the
fires of passion burning
I promise
to be the best mom I can to our children
I promise to always keep you as
an equal partner
I promise to never say things to you in anger
I promise
to be your partner for life
I promise to be your shelter from the storm

I promise you a love everlasting.

Making a promise on the Promise Day, ".......Together again

It would feel so good to be

In your arms

Where all my journeys end....."

Have a Happy 'Promise' Day!!

Teddy Day - Being a Kid in Love

All of us have been so busy with work that we never find time for fun and being naughty. This teddy day have fun and enjoy with each other. Life is too short for hatred and hard feelings. Rush to the nearest shop and get a teddy for your love of life. It's a month of love and since valentine's day is just around the corner, the teddy as gift will surely set the mood right for your partner. Forget the tension and problems and be a kid.

Have a Happy Teddy Day!!

Rose Day Special - Let Love Bloom

There are times when your beloved is sad, there are times when no matter what happens you do not feel like smiling. But there is something that is sure to bring a smile back on your partner's face. Any guesses? Surely - its 'Roses'.


It's 7th of February and it is a 'ROSE day'. Rush to the nearest floweriest and get a bunch of roses. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is sad or angry with you, don't wait for things to settle down on their own. You need a pacifier and what can be better than roses. Just speak your heart out and tell each other how much your love and how incomplete you feel without one another.


Happy Rose Day!!

Weekend Romance Special-Enjoy Romance in Love Games

Has it been long since you felt like a kid? And the most important thing related to kids is playing. Can you recall that when was the last time you played any game? Blank!!! never mind. It happens with everyone and specially with couples without kids. But that doesn't mean you can't play and enjoy. Since its weekend, it's mandatory that both the partners share some romantic moments together.

Just let your romance buds bloom and your naught mind run wild. Enjoy this weekend playing games with spouse. You can choose any simple game and have fun. The twist in the game comes when you add a romantic touch to the game. Keep some rules and follow them religiously.

Here's how you play a LOVE GAME -

Choose a Game - you can choose any game. From cross words, mind games, cards, 1 minute puzzles, video games or any game for two.

Rules - Mutually decide the rules of the game.

Play - Start playing the game. Every time one looses the game, the other partner can give you a task to do.


Tasks - That's the twist that I was referring to. The partner may ask you to strip your clothes one by one. One can even ask to kiss or a smooch. The tasks can be decided on the spot or you may decide them before hand too.

THE FUN - Try playing any game and enjoy the fun. More than playing the game, you would love to win and loose it. So, just set the mood right for some love games this evening and enjoy your weekend in a special way with your spouse. Happy Playing!

Talking to Each Other on Bedside

Busy is he and busy is me, then where do we find glee? A problem common amongst couples especially in urban lifestyle. If you have been in years of relationship, then it gets difficult at times to find new ways to express your love. At times, you feel completely lost and don't know how to be romantic despite wanting to do so.

Being romantic is not just offering gifts, giving surprises or making love to your partner. There is much more to it. On that note, couples would admit to the fact that 'the most important thing in romance is spending time with each other'. Its a month of love and that's why some special ways to make each other feel special. Here is another romantic idea for all couples.



Relax and Talk
Often on weekend, couples wake up early or late in hurry to finish off chores. Be different this weekend. Just finish your pending chores a night before so that you have a peaceful mind. When you wake up next morning, don't get up instantly. Lie on your bedside and chat for hours. Don't discuss work or relatives. Just ensure that you feel for your partner and speak your heart out. Tell each other that it was long since you wanted to be with your beloved and how you feel at the moment. Talking on bedside while lying close to one another will rejuvenate you.

Talk all Night Long
Couples often make love and feel they have been romantic enough. But next day, they feel no different and do not feel refreshed. Having sex often is not always satisfying. It becomes more of a job. Then just let your tight knots go loose. Keep yourself ready for a night to talk. Just talk to each other on bedside. Share jokes and laugh with each other... Set the mood right for a romantic night with soothing lights and some snacks on your side tables. ...Try this romantic idea for your beloved. Don't forget to share your experience with us.. Talk to each other on Bedside... Happy Romantic Talking.. :)

Loving Him Inside Out

You thought he is no more the same guy that you married. Some may also end up concluding that their boyfriend has changed a lot and feels so different. Its no more the same bonding and love between the two of You.

Ignore the thought that has held you so hard for long. Forget the way he was earlier. May be its the responsibilities, may be its his career that has needs more attention. And that is why he has been so different all this while. Look at the positive aspect of the entire scenario - He relies on YOU so much. You hold an important place in his life and that is why he thinks he can be the way he wants to be.

Just give this point a deep thought and see how your life changes for good. Accept him with the way he is and just 'Love him inside out.'

A Month of Love

I often hear people saying that valentine's day is nothing special for them. For them, everyday is a valentine's day, every day is a day for him or her everyday is a day for love...bla bla bla bla.... I never disagree but to some extent. For me, everyday is a day of love, but this day is definitely special. Special!! Why?? Special because this day I make sure at least on this day I do not hurt him or anyone around me. It's a day of love and I ensure that I don't do anything that makes anyone sad.

If you agree with me or have the same opinion as mine, then follow me here for some love special posts for the entire month of February. You may think, as why did I start three days in advance. A simple reason - February just has 28 days and I wanted to make this month of love complete with 31 days.

So just get ready for some notes, tips and feelings dipped in love. No regrets, no complaints, no negative shades of life and lifestyle. It would be raining love the entire month. Therefore, just hold your heart tight and make sure you don't fall in love by the end of February. With Love :)

Don't Take Professional Matters to Heart

Feeling heavy at heart because of all the scolding that you got from the boss today. Bosses expect a lot from their subordinate. They pressurize you when you they feel the pressure. That's what the bottom line is. Don't take professional matters to heart.

Weekend Romance Special - Winter The Season for Sex

It's Friday evening and weekend has almost begun. Its time to rev up your sexual life. Don't tell me that winter is something that keeps you away from indulging in love making. Rather winter is the ideal season to snuggle up each other in rugs and feel the warmth from one another.

Don't let weather play spoil sport in your sexual life. Make the most of the season and just enjoy your weekend in bed.

Be a Santa This Christmas

Since its Christmas, it had to be BIG and BLITHE.... Lets join hands to celebrate the day with happiness, bells, jingles, cakes and balloons. Leaving all our grudges aside and tensions at bay, come together and join in the celebration of fun and frolic. Be a Santa this Christmas, call your friends and plan a party. As parents, just get into the shoes of kids and enjoy the day with them, like them.

If you have annoyed someone and have had a rift with anyone, this is the time. Just let the knot loose and notice it unfold itself. Just take a first step towards your loved ones whom you have hurt some time and notice JESUS move his magic wand.


Spread Happiness around and have a very Happy and Joyous Christmas. Here is Chivalrous Clan wishing A MERRY CHRISTMAS to everyone here.

Shouting at Her Infront of Others

Don't suppress her so much that she loses her self respect. Neither do anything that makes her feel ashamed in front of others.

Simply wanted to say those lines before beginning on what I have to say today. Abusing her would be definitely a wrong word to use, rather lets keep it short and simple as 'shouting'. Many men in relationship have the habit of shouting loud at their female counterparts. While doing so, they never realize that it might affect his beloved and also her feelings.


What Men Never Think?

Whether you have a reason or you don't, but usage of harsh words and loud tone definitely have their impact. But, not always for the good. Shouting in a relationship is not bad. But what matters is that you need to keep a check in the way you react. This time I do not want to tell you what to do, rather would love it if you suggest me, what should be done.

Weekend Romance Special - Places for Quick Love Making

Let this weekend be different. Normally we look for a weekend to spend some great time with our beloved. For live-in couples and husband-wives, weekends come as a boon and they love to indulge in more relaxed love making activities. But why do we need to stick to this rule always? Let this weekend be dedicated to quick love making. Sounds Fun? Its Got to be....

Here are some quickies for you. Try making love at these places. I bet you would cherish this weekend memories for ever. Here they go...

At the Terrace in Moonlight - Nothing can be more romantic than making love to your partner in moonlight. Go for a stroll at the terrace and find a corner quickly to make love to your beloved. A hot love making session would definitely leave you sweating while cool breeze makes you more passionate.


In Your Study Room - Most of the people would not like this idea but it was something that was suggested by my close friend. She shared her experience of suddenly slipping into her hubby's studyroom while he was busy at work. She also said, she had one of the nest love making experience in the studyroom. While studying, one tends to be most engrossed and disturbing you partner in such a situation can be fun at times.

In the Corridor - Do it, only when you don't have anyone else at home. Get some cozy mattress and light a candle while you keep the nightlamps switched off. Play some romantic music that would surely add to the mood. Corridor as love making spot can give you sense of freedom that is not so in confined rooms.

In Her Changing Room - Many of the us have a small corner in our homes for changing clothes (especially for women). This weekend, don't miss the chance to seduce her while dresses and undresses herself in the changing room. Start slow and later move fast. The limitation of having lesser space might just give you both more pleasure than any where else.

Relations & Rapport At Work - Tips for Handling Work Pressure

Well, when I talk about nurturing relations, it does not restrict me to talk about personal relations only. Apart from our family life, we spent a major share of time at work. And therefore it becomes almost mandatory to have healthy rapport with colleagues and definitely with the seniors.

But all gets shattered and shaken when we have are in a sea of work pressure, dieing to breathe and struggling hard to save ourselves from drowning. Immense work pressure and inability to handle it leaves a bad impression on your boss which actually affects the relation between them.

I had a bad day today at work, but then I ensured I remain calm to handle the mounting work pressure. Here I am sharing the tips that I followed to handle the work pressure.

Always Maintain a Professional Standpoint - Make sure you never lose your professionalism. Try maintaining a professional standpoint. Work the way you always do.

Do not Avoid Your Boss - Avoiding your boss may lead to more problems at work. In a situation when, you had a tiff with your boss, ensure that you do not avoid talking to them.

Never Decrease Your Production Level - The loss in production will all the more aggravate the anger of seniors and top guns. Remember however disturbed you are, never cut short on your production level.

Control Your Emotions - That's the key to handle any kind of work pressure. Sounds easy, but is actually more difficult than that. (Trust me even I am very bad at it). But if you can keep a control on your emotions both anger and tension, you know you have handled the situation well. Wish you never have a bad day at work. God Forbid, if you have tension at work - try these ways to handle excess work pressure.

Love Notes - To Keep The Romance Alive

Not just wonderful way to express your feelings for your sweetheart, LoVe NoTeS and even Love Letters are the most simplest way to keep romance intact. For many lovebirds, love letters have been replaced by a sms, a mail or even by a Facebook or Orkut scrapbook. But the real essence of romance comes only from a handwritten romantic notes on a piece of paper. Don't believe me? Just try these romantic love messages ideas to see the sparkle in her eyes.

Leave a Romantic Love Making Note in the Bathroom for Her - Tell her how eagerly you will wait for the evening when you can meet her for romantic love making evening.

Leave a Small Love Note Under Her Pillow for Her to See in the Morning - Use your imagination and describe how beautiful she looked while sleeping and how much you love her. Your small note will make a huge impact and will help your relationship nurture and strengthen.

A Love Phrase for Her in Her Purse - Quietly slip in a small love letter in her money purse. She would be all surprised and overwhelmed with this gesture. Try doing it, but make sure let it be a surprise. And be ready to receive a surprise call or message from her side too.


Keep Her Breakfast Ready with A Romantic Note - Give Her a Break from Everyday Chores and prepare breakfast for her. Just plug in a small love note with the breakfast. I can vouch for it that she would love you for the love letter more than for preparing the breakfast.