Learning from Each Other

Being in a relationship, there are several things one can possibly do for nurturing one's relationship. Its important that both the partners understand each other for a compatible and strong bonding.

Its important that the partners on both the ends should have strong feelings for each other. Many a times, couples find it difficult to stick to each other despite being in love. While one of them is too patient, the other might be aggressive. Living in a nuclear family and packed with work, one may not find time to discuss the problems at home with an elder person and seek advice.



Observe & Learn from Each Other

You may not be an expert at solving problems, but your partner may be a complete show stealer. He or she may find solutions in a moment. Don't get bogged down by his or her expertise in doing anything, rather just observe quietly and learn the art of problem solving.

You could have be a zero tolerance attitude, but your partner might just be the coolest person in the entire world. Such a variation might be dangerous for a relationship. The best way one can work towards a smoother relationship is by learning various attributes from each other.

Keeping an Hour Aside for Each Other - Romantic Idea for the Busy & Married Couples

If romance & being together for each other was meant for weekends, then why would couples marry each other?? Busy with work and so many things happening around, many couples confess to spend time with each other only on weekends. But does that keeps your relationship steady and moreover 'SMOOTH'?

To nurture your relationship, just follow one RULE religiously to keep your love life intact forever.

The Rule is to -'Keep a Relaxed Hour Aside for Each Other'

You may defend yourself and say that every night while sleeping you spend time with each other. But that's not the time that we are referring to.

It is advisable that you mutually decide one hour from your busy schedule to be spend with each other. Make sure it is not the same time that you spend while making love at times at night.

An Hour for Each Other - The evening hour is the best time to be spent together.

Sit Together - Enjoy tea, coffee, soft drink or some nutritious snacks together. Take turns to prepare the food or drink for each other.

Talk and Spit out Everything You have in Mind - He or she is your partner and you can definitely confide almost everything in them.

Share yourself - While you are busy the entire day, you may not be able to call up and share something. Make use of this one hour and share all you wanted to since morning.
Share Jokes - Talk light and laugh with each other. You have had the entire day for everything serious around you, but this particular hour just make sure you laugh with each other. Share jokes or any old memories to feel light and relaxed.

Promises to Keep

Meant to be broken, why do they hold an important place in any relationship? Whether its the relation of a couple in love or of a child and father, be it any relation, promises are a part of everyone's life. Here is a poem that I have loved for long and felt like sharing this today on Promise Day.

I promise to be your warm spot to cuddle up to
when you feel cold
I promise
to be your soft place to land if you
should fall
I promise to be the first
one to say I am sorry
(even if I was right)
I promise to be there for
you in all of your times of
joy and sorrow
I promise to support you no
matter what your
decision (even if I don't agree )
I promise to make a
new memory with you each
and every day
I promise to love you without change

I promise to make you laugh
I promise to make you cry
I promise to give
you strength when you are weak
I promise to love you forever
I promise
to cherish you and your love
I promise to compromise with you
I promise
to make you and our children my first
priority
I promise to never take
your love for granted
I promise to never lose faith in you
I promise to
never give you a reason to distrust me
I promise to always trust you
I promise to work with you to resolve our conflicts
I promise to always be
proud of you
I promise to never let you feel alone in this world
I promise
to find new ways everyday to keep the
fires of passion burning
I promise
to be the best mom I can to our children
I promise to always keep you as
an equal partner
I promise to never say things to you in anger
I promise
to be your partner for life
I promise to be your shelter from the storm

I promise you a love everlasting.

Making a promise on the Promise Day, ".......Together again

It would feel so good to be

In your arms

Where all my journeys end....."

Have a Happy 'Promise' Day!!

Rose Day Special - Let Love Bloom

There are times when your beloved is sad, there are times when no matter what happens you do not feel like smiling. But there is something that is sure to bring a smile back on your partner's face. Any guesses? Surely - its 'Roses'.


It's 7th of February and it is a 'ROSE day'. Rush to the nearest floweriest and get a bunch of roses. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is sad or angry with you, don't wait for things to settle down on their own. You need a pacifier and what can be better than roses. Just speak your heart out and tell each other how much your love and how incomplete you feel without one another.


Happy Rose Day!!

Weekend Romance Special-Enjoy Romance in Love Games

Has it been long since you felt like a kid? And the most important thing related to kids is playing. Can you recall that when was the last time you played any game? Blank!!! never mind. It happens with everyone and specially with couples without kids. But that doesn't mean you can't play and enjoy. Since its weekend, it's mandatory that both the partners share some romantic moments together.

Just let your romance buds bloom and your naught mind run wild. Enjoy this weekend playing games with spouse. You can choose any simple game and have fun. The twist in the game comes when you add a romantic touch to the game. Keep some rules and follow them religiously.

Here's how you play a LOVE GAME -

Choose a Game - you can choose any game. From cross words, mind games, cards, 1 minute puzzles, video games or any game for two.

Rules - Mutually decide the rules of the game.

Play - Start playing the game. Every time one looses the game, the other partner can give you a task to do.


Tasks - That's the twist that I was referring to. The partner may ask you to strip your clothes one by one. One can even ask to kiss or a smooch. The tasks can be decided on the spot or you may decide them before hand too.

THE FUN - Try playing any game and enjoy the fun. More than playing the game, you would love to win and loose it. So, just set the mood right for some love games this evening and enjoy your weekend in a special way with your spouse. Happy Playing!

Talking to Each Other on Bedside

Busy is he and busy is me, then where do we find glee? A problem common amongst couples especially in urban lifestyle. If you have been in years of relationship, then it gets difficult at times to find new ways to express your love. At times, you feel completely lost and don't know how to be romantic despite wanting to do so.

Being romantic is not just offering gifts, giving surprises or making love to your partner. There is much more to it. On that note, couples would admit to the fact that 'the most important thing in romance is spending time with each other'. Its a month of love and that's why some special ways to make each other feel special. Here is another romantic idea for all couples.



Relax and Talk
Often on weekend, couples wake up early or late in hurry to finish off chores. Be different this weekend. Just finish your pending chores a night before so that you have a peaceful mind. When you wake up next morning, don't get up instantly. Lie on your bedside and chat for hours. Don't discuss work or relatives. Just ensure that you feel for your partner and speak your heart out. Tell each other that it was long since you wanted to be with your beloved and how you feel at the moment. Talking on bedside while lying close to one another will rejuvenate you.

Talk all Night Long
Couples often make love and feel they have been romantic enough. But next day, they feel no different and do not feel refreshed. Having sex often is not always satisfying. It becomes more of a job. Then just let your tight knots go loose. Keep yourself ready for a night to talk. Just talk to each other on bedside. Share jokes and laugh with each other... Set the mood right for a romantic night with soothing lights and some snacks on your side tables. ...Try this romantic idea for your beloved. Don't forget to share your experience with us.. Talk to each other on Bedside... Happy Romantic Talking.. :)

Loving Him Inside Out

You thought he is no more the same guy that you married. Some may also end up concluding that their boyfriend has changed a lot and feels so different. Its no more the same bonding and love between the two of You.

Ignore the thought that has held you so hard for long. Forget the way he was earlier. May be its the responsibilities, may be its his career that has needs more attention. And that is why he has been so different all this while. Look at the positive aspect of the entire scenario - He relies on YOU so much. You hold an important place in his life and that is why he thinks he can be the way he wants to be.

Just give this point a deep thought and see how your life changes for good. Accept him with the way he is and just 'Love him inside out.'

A Month of Love

I often hear people saying that valentine's day is nothing special for them. For them, everyday is a valentine's day, every day is a day for him or her everyday is a day for love...bla bla bla bla.... I never disagree but to some extent. For me, everyday is a day of love, but this day is definitely special. Special!! Why?? Special because this day I make sure at least on this day I do not hurt him or anyone around me. It's a day of love and I ensure that I don't do anything that makes anyone sad.

If you agree with me or have the same opinion as mine, then follow me here for some love special posts for the entire month of February. You may think, as why did I start three days in advance. A simple reason - February just has 28 days and I wanted to make this month of love complete with 31 days.

So just get ready for some notes, tips and feelings dipped in love. No regrets, no complaints, no negative shades of life and lifestyle. It would be raining love the entire month. Therefore, just hold your heart tight and make sure you don't fall in love by the end of February. With Love :)

Weekend Romance Special - Winter The Season for Sex

It's Friday evening and weekend has almost begun. Its time to rev up your sexual life. Don't tell me that winter is something that keeps you away from indulging in love making. Rather winter is the ideal season to snuggle up each other in rugs and feel the warmth from one another.

Don't let weather play spoil sport in your sexual life. Make the most of the season and just enjoy your weekend in bed.

Be a Santa This Christmas

Since its Christmas, it had to be BIG and BLITHE.... Lets join hands to celebrate the day with happiness, bells, jingles, cakes and balloons. Leaving all our grudges aside and tensions at bay, come together and join in the celebration of fun and frolic. Be a Santa this Christmas, call your friends and plan a party. As parents, just get into the shoes of kids and enjoy the day with them, like them.

If you have annoyed someone and have had a rift with anyone, this is the time. Just let the knot loose and notice it unfold itself. Just take a first step towards your loved ones whom you have hurt some time and notice JESUS move his magic wand.


Spread Happiness around and have a very Happy and Joyous Christmas. Here is Chivalrous Clan wishing A MERRY CHRISTMAS to everyone here.

Shouting at Her Infront of Others

Don't suppress her so much that she loses her self respect. Neither do anything that makes her feel ashamed in front of others.

Simply wanted to say those lines before beginning on what I have to say today. Abusing her would be definitely a wrong word to use, rather lets keep it short and simple as 'shouting'. Many men in relationship have the habit of shouting loud at their female counterparts. While doing so, they never realize that it might affect his beloved and also her feelings.


What Men Never Think?

Whether you have a reason or you don't, but usage of harsh words and loud tone definitely have their impact. But, not always for the good. Shouting in a relationship is not bad. But what matters is that you need to keep a check in the way you react. This time I do not want to tell you what to do, rather would love it if you suggest me, what should be done.

Weekend Romance Special - Places for Quick Love Making

Let this weekend be different. Normally we look for a weekend to spend some great time with our beloved. For live-in couples and husband-wives, weekends come as a boon and they love to indulge in more relaxed love making activities. But why do we need to stick to this rule always? Let this weekend be dedicated to quick love making. Sounds Fun? Its Got to be....

Here are some quickies for you. Try making love at these places. I bet you would cherish this weekend memories for ever. Here they go...

At the Terrace in Moonlight - Nothing can be more romantic than making love to your partner in moonlight. Go for a stroll at the terrace and find a corner quickly to make love to your beloved. A hot love making session would definitely leave you sweating while cool breeze makes you more passionate.


In Your Study Room - Most of the people would not like this idea but it was something that was suggested by my close friend. She shared her experience of suddenly slipping into her hubby's studyroom while he was busy at work. She also said, she had one of the nest love making experience in the studyroom. While studying, one tends to be most engrossed and disturbing you partner in such a situation can be fun at times.

In the Corridor - Do it, only when you don't have anyone else at home. Get some cozy mattress and light a candle while you keep the nightlamps switched off. Play some romantic music that would surely add to the mood. Corridor as love making spot can give you sense of freedom that is not so in confined rooms.

In Her Changing Room - Many of the us have a small corner in our homes for changing clothes (especially for women). This weekend, don't miss the chance to seduce her while dresses and undresses herself in the changing room. Start slow and later move fast. The limitation of having lesser space might just give you both more pleasure than any where else.

Love Notes - To Keep The Romance Alive

Not just wonderful way to express your feelings for your sweetheart, LoVe NoTeS and even Love Letters are the most simplest way to keep romance intact. For many lovebirds, love letters have been replaced by a sms, a mail or even by a Facebook or Orkut scrapbook. But the real essence of romance comes only from a handwritten romantic notes on a piece of paper. Don't believe me? Just try these romantic love messages ideas to see the sparkle in her eyes.

Leave a Romantic Love Making Note in the Bathroom for Her - Tell her how eagerly you will wait for the evening when you can meet her for romantic love making evening.

Leave a Small Love Note Under Her Pillow for Her to See in the Morning - Use your imagination and describe how beautiful she looked while sleeping and how much you love her. Your small note will make a huge impact and will help your relationship nurture and strengthen.

A Love Phrase for Her in Her Purse - Quietly slip in a small love letter in her money purse. She would be all surprised and overwhelmed with this gesture. Try doing it, but make sure let it be a surprise. And be ready to receive a surprise call or message from her side too.


Keep Her Breakfast Ready with A Romantic Note - Give Her a Break from Everyday Chores and prepare breakfast for her. Just plug in a small love note with the breakfast. I can vouch for it that she would love you for the love letter more than for preparing the breakfast.

Tips for Tolerating His Temper

Men by nature are more aggressive than women. Exceptions are always there, but the hard core fact is that men are more short tempered than their female counterparts. Anger is common amongst men and many couples face the problem of handling anger in their relationship. Many wives and even girlfriends find it difficult to control their men when they flare up. Here are some quick tips to tolerate his temper and help him calm down.

Remain Calm When He is Loud & Angry - That's definitely the first and foremost thing. You must have a certain level of patience to do so. If the wife or girlfriend gets angry too while the husband or boyfriend is still angry, the situation is bound to go out of control.

Mutually Decide a Signal to Aware Him of His Anger - If your man has recognized and realized that he is short tempered and has a problem, then it has become actually easy for both of you to control it. May be both of you can work out a signal for his temper. Whenever he is angry and is almost ready to flare up, you can give him a signal. The signals may either be a song, a whistle or few pre-decided words.

Do not Tolerate His Temper Always - As I said earlier, that it is not wise to reply back or counter him whenever he gets angry. But friends, it is equally important for you to make him understand that he is wrong on his part. Do not make it a habit to tolerate his temper whether it is justified or a baseless one. The next time you boyfriend gets angry and aggressive, do not stay quiet or argue. Make it clear that he is wrong and just walk out of the room. Let him know that he has hurt you.

Nagging Nature - Warning Signs

Since I wrote about some warning signs for those in a relationship, I guess mentioning the warning signs of being a nagging girlfriend or wife would definitely be welcomed. To some extent I could relate myself with this subject as for past few months even I have transformed into a nagging girlfriend. But fortunately I was alarmed by my behavior myself before being told by my boyfriend.

Nagging in a relationship can actually be a barrier between the couples. It is for both the partners to understand that nagging by husband or the wives (mostly) can be justified at times. But nagging as a habit day and night is for sure a mood spoiler. Now before I prolong it any more, here are few signs for females to improve their behavior with their men.

You Call Your Boyfriend Every Hour for Some Chores - The moment he picks up phone, he says ' I remember I have to deposit money in the bank tomorrow'. You have been like a nagging wife or a girlfriend if this scenario relates to you. You are for sure on the roads of a nagging world if you call up your boyfriend every now and then to remind about some work.


Telling Him to Join Gym - He has been looking weak for some time and you think joining gymnasium would help him recover. Therefore you nag and nag. You never miss an opportunity to tell him its all because he does not exercise.

You Have Problem If He Sleeps Till late in the Morning - Rather than wishing him 'Good morning', you say - is this the time to get up? Girls by nature are more alert and prompt for their daily chores and activities. Therefore, they start nagging when they their partner is lazy or slow in his work. Most of the men complain of their wife's or girlfriend's behavior if the men sleep late till morning.

Complains are What Your Daily Telephonic Talks Comprise of - If you are a nagging wife, its very for you to figure this out. You need 'no warning sign'. It is evident. Evident from your conversation with your partner. All your telephonic conversation comprises of complains and you keep cribbing all the time.

You Do Not Miss a Chance to Point Out His Mistake - That becomes a girl's favorite pass-time. if you are a nagging girlfriend, you keep your brain's search engine working all the time to point out his mistakes. Whether small mistake or big blunder, you never ignore any of them.

You Keep Reminding Him of the Promise which He Could Not Keep Years Ago - It was a small promise that he could not keep and you have not forgiven him years later. Your nagging nature is evident from your behave, if you keep reminding him of his promise that he could keep.

It's an old saying that 'If you realize your mistake, you are almost forgiven.' So if you have discovered a nagging wife or girlfriend in yourself, you have taken the first step. All you need to do is work on it slowly BUT Steadily.

Possessive In a Relation - Few Warning Signs

Possessive - Does this word make you think of your boyfriend or girlfriend every time? Have I touched some corner of your heart with this question, read on if you nod in yes. While possessiveness at a very ground root level is good for a relation, the irony lies only when it goes beyond that. The possessive nature of a partner in a relationship turns out to be a burden for the person on the other end. The outcome henceforth is that the other partner struggles to get free of the relation. While insecurity is the basis of possessiveness and can be fatal for any relation.

Girls often complain, crib or praise their boyfriends for being too possessive for them. But over the past years, the ball has settled more in the other side of the court. And I would be biased if I say that its the men who are mostly possessive. That is, girls in a relationship have become more possessive for their male counterparts. Here are few warning signs for girls to indicate that you are being possessive. Take them seriously and avoid being a possessive lover.

Don't be Snoopy - Do not go searching about every detail about his old friends and search his mailbox.



You Keep a Minute-to-Minute Record of His Activities - Remaining in touch and maintaining proper communication is different. But, it is sheer possessiveness if you want to know every minute detail about his activities.

You Loose Your Temper If He Does Not Answer Your Call - Give him some space. For God's sake. He can be busy at work and even missing a call is human. Do not shout at him or get upset next time, if he is unable to respond to your phonecall.

It's Possessiveness if You Follow Him Everywhere - Save your relationship from dieing. Do not make it a habit of forcefully following him everywhere, whether to his office party or to shopping.

Quick, Easy and Special Halloween Gifts For Men - Weekend Special

Its Halloween today and it just struck me that I should gift something special to the man in my life - my boyfriend. Halloween though is not popular and isn't celebrated throughout the world, I feel there is no problem to choose it as a reason to have celebrations at home. After all, its weekend and everyone has the right to celebrate. While I opted for a sweet and special gift for my boyfriend, even you can rush to buy something that would make his weekend special. Here are some easy and attractive gifts ideas for Men on this Halloween.

Mini jack-o-lanterns Looking Fresh Strawberry - You can make them at home. They are easy to make and would definitely amaze your man. Treat him this weekend with these special strawberries. Just dip fresh strawberries in chocolate paste and nuts and garnish them to look like mini -jack-o-lanterns.

I bet your boyfriend or husband would love this special gift. Light some candles in your room and get into your romantic shoes to make his weekend really special. Serve him with mini jack-o-lanterns looking fresh strawberries.

Hot & Horror Movies Collection - Most men love to watch horror and hot movies. Just go to your near by shop and choose some really good horror movies. If you want just add in some hot movies CDs too.

Tips for Pampering Your Girlfriend

Its been a long time since I met the world outside through blog. This time I am not sorry and would not even apologize. Wonder why? The reason is simple - I was happy and enjoying more than what I do normally. I was busy in my relationship - with my five years long boyfriend. I loved being there exclusively for him as he made sure I felt special. Obviously with him, I have always felt so, but for past some days he had made me feel the most important person in his life.

While I am still in cloud nine, I would love to share that it was his ways of pampering that i lost my heart to. Infact, pampering is one of the easiest way to show your girlfriend that you love her. Here are some simple ways to pamper your girlfriend.


Make a Heart for Her - Be innovative. Use your imagination and creativity to make a heart for her where you can write the three magical words - 'I love you'. If you can make a heart shaped cake, that would be great. You can also try your hands on making a heart shaped card. Draw a heart on window panes. Girls love such romantic ideas.




Shower Her with Compliments - Make her feel that she is the best person in the world. Give her compliments that would lighten up her face and pamper her. Compliment her for her dresses, for her gestures and for everything you admire her for. Remember it costs nothing to give her compliments. After all, you love her and your compliments will bring a smile on her face.

Choose Her a Dress to Wear- It isn't necessary that you need to spend a lot to pamper her. If buying a special dress is not possible, how about choosing a dress for her to wear. Ask any woman, she would nod in a yes to say that its a difficult task to choose a dress from her own wardrobe. She would really love you if you make a choice for her at times. Keep the dress ready for her and surprise her once she comes out of washroom after bath.


Plan a Special Date with Her at Her Favorite Place - Every girl can tell you a place where she loves going often. One sure shot way to please and pamper your girlfriend is to plan a special date with her. The place can be a restaurant, a sea beach or even a special corner of your house. Let your romance buds blossom and make the date special with candles, small gifts, cards, flowers and good food.

Express Your Love in Public - If both of you are visiting a shopping mall and you get an opportunity to express your love for your girlfriend. Do not miss that opportunity if you know she would be overwhelmed. You may propose her for marriage or you may sing her favorite song if you can sing well.

Try these simple ways of pampering your girlfriend or just try doing something new. Do anything but with your true feelings she is sure to sense and feel it without a doubt. Show her that you love and care, She would definitely feel Pampered.

Busy in Festivals - No Time for Your Spouse

Its festive season and you have been busy doing your household chores religiously. Shopping, decoration, buying gifts, cooking and inviting guests at home - all this keeps you packed the whole day. Amidst all this, you rarely find time for your spouse. He or she is the one who is left unattended. And it is needless to say that you hardly think of romance during festivals.

You have been following this schedule for years now. But did you ever realize that your spouse might be feeling left out. Give it a thought and stay tuned for next post that says - 'Romance During Festivals Adds to Celebration'.

Romance While House Warming

I was away for a week as I had to shift my house. That was the reason for the delay in posting. A week long house shifting process had kept me too occupied to spare time for myself. While packing and unwinding stuffs at home took most of my time, the rest of hours were lost in getting the interiors of the new house designed.

It does happen with all of us. And what is also common amongst us is that we hardly find time for romance while shifting our houses. But despite the fact that I was damn busy, I had my share of romantic moments. Thanks to my darling boyfriend. His romantic ideas stole my heart, obviously once again. Here are some of the romantic ideas that he tried during my house warming. You can try them too. Here they go....


Order Food & Enjoy a Candle Light Dinner - Your beloved must be tired packing or unpacking. Order her favorite food and keep it a surprise for her. Arrange a small table and decorate the room with some flowers and candles. Keep the table ready with delicious food. Surprise her and dine together. Soft instrumental music will add to the romantic mood of the room.


Rub Your Partner's Shoulders - Nothing feels greater than a small neck & shoulder massage when you are tired. Rub your partner's shoulder to make him or her relax. That is one of the ways of being romantic.



Pull Her to a Corner & Give Her a Warm Hug - Let your romantic soul come alive. Whenever you get time, look out for an opportunity when you can take her into your arms and take her to a corner. Kiss and hug her. Express your feelings to her. Honestly, girls love it when you are naughty.


Shower Her with Hugs & Kisses Every Now and Then - Your partner will not feel the stress of so much work both at home or outside, if you stand by his/ her side. Just shower your love and kisses at short intervals if you are near by. Your love and care will add sparks to your romantic life.

Go explore new ways of romancing. Whether married or unmarried, romance is necessary amongst couples. So set the mood and let romance be in air.