Thursday, July 30, 2009

Why Sleeping Away From Him - 10 Possible Reasons


The entire situation was rather hilarious than serious and I couldn't control giggling making sure I do not make any noise. Actually it was just a day before when I managed to overhear the talks of some married women sitting in a corner of the park. I was sitting there alone, relaxing after my 20 minutes of brisk walking that I do every evening.

Couples Sleeping Separately
This group of women were almost close friends, I guess, as they shared their personal tit-bits frankly to one another. The serious matter was being discussed in a lighter mood and that kept me glued to the conversation till the end. Though I know it is a bad habit to overhear, but curiosity did not kill the cat. These ladies were just sharing reasons why they preferred to sleep away from their husband....Here are top 10 reasons that these women had for sleeping apart from husband. I would narrate it in almost the same way that each one them did.

He Stinks - Gosh, I could hardly stand next to him, forget about sleeping every night with him. His bad body odour would make me unconscious rather than getting good sleep. The worst part is that if that happens, my man wouldn't even realize. I need to shower him with deodorant when we sleep together.

My Husband Farts
Husband Farts - Its awful and disgusting sleeping next to him as he farts every half an hour. Its always loud and smelly. I tolerated it for 8 years, but chose to sleep in the other room after my doctor alarmed me that I was being insomniac.

Always In The Mood - Another women spoke shyly and then burst into laughter saying - My hubby is almost addicted to me and wants to have sex almost everyday. He is always charged up and feels like making love every night I am close to him. That makes me tired and at times restless too, therefore I have a small bed in the same room and sleep.

He Grips Me Hard That I Am Almost Out of Breath - One of the ladies said she found it difficult to sleep properly as her husband holds her tightly in his arms and sleeps every night. She went on to say that she often had cramps in her muscles when she slept with him. That why both of them do not sleep cuddled together every night and stick to our respective corners of the bed.

His Snores Almost Tear Down My Eardrums - My husband has this bad habit of snoring that makes me run for cotton balls at the middle of the night. Worst of all, he is not a regular snorer, but it happens all of a sudden loudly in the middle of the night and lasts for hours. That's why I prefer sleeping apart from him.

My Husband Snores
Bad Breath - Every woman had her own saga and so was with this one. She said that having very sensitive smelling ability, she found it hard to sleep with her husband who has bad breath. Other women teased and chukled her asking how did she kiss him then?

Tired of His Sleep Talking - Right in the middle of the night, he suddenly starts to speak. Nothing scares me more than that in my early days of my marriage. Now I am almost used to it except the fact that I can not have a sound sleep. My husband's sleep talking is a serious concern and makes me go mad every night if I sleep on the same bed.

Kicking - One of the women said that her husband hasn't grown up till now. She was referring to his kicking habits while sleeping. Her husband has this bad habit of kicking and throwing his legs hard. In such situations, he often hurts his wife. That is why its mutually accepted by both of them to sleep on different beds.

Talks A Lot - The last reason that I heard was a little surprising as it is more common to women than to men. She was heard saying that her husband gets up in the middle of the night at least four or five times to remind her of things to be done the next day or to tell her any incident. She said she is tired of his talks and at times teases her husband calling him the 'lady in the family'.

These reasons for a couple are serious, but sitting in the park listening to these gossip surely brought smile on face.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Sleeping Together - Watch Your Positions


Do you snuggle up each other and sleep? Sleeping together is obviously the most common thing in a married couple's life. Infact its 'A-OK' for even unmarried couples now. I am not up here to debate over either in support or against 'live-in' issues. Rather when talking about sleeping together, one hardly pays attention to sleeping position with one's partner.

Your way of sleeping with someone unclothes the kind of relationship you share. You might be sharing a bed, but what about the intimacy of your relationship. Since sleeping is a posture when you are most relaxed, it is almost obvious that you will be in most natural way. And that is the time when you can have the most casual behaviour with your spouse or partner. Though, there might be exceptions that might be due to strange upbringing, health problems, etc. Just a sneak peak at some of the sleeping positions of couples in their bedrooms....

couple sleeping positions
Locking Each Other = Love, Peace, Relaxation -> Its like stating the obvious. A couple that sleeps while embracing each other is definitely madly in love. For some it might be a fresh relation and for others it can be a well-knitted bonding.

Both Lying Straight Under the Same Sheet = Settled, Relaxed and Equal Rights -> This type of sleeping posture depicts that both the partners are happily settled and love to share everything with each other.

Spoon Position = Security, Deeply in Love -> When you sleep behind your partner, hugging and embracing him/her, this position reveals the closeness between the partners. Such a relation is mature and depicts understanding amongst the two. It also shows dominance of one partner on other and at the same time care and sense of security also.

The Royal Position = Dependency, Commitment, Trust and Strong Male Ego -> Its quite common position amongst the couples. When the women lies with her head on the man's shoulder who is lying straight on his back with face up, this is a royal position of sleeping. Such a posture of sleeping clearly and unspokenly states the dependence of female on her male counterpart. Trust as well as long-term commitment are the cornerstone of such a relation, while strong male ego is apparent.

Zen Style of Sleeping (Back to Back) = Established relation, Independence Gelled with Trust on One Another -> While in a Zen style of sleeping, both the partners sleep back to back. What keeps them close to each other is their butts. Couples that sleep in Zen style with touching buttocks illustrate interdependence, sensuous bonding along with being less exploratory. Many couples adopt this kind of sleeping position after couple of years of their marriage.

Drifting Away = Desperately Independent, Tension, Almost Dead Relationship, Rejection/ Dissatisfaction -> If both the partners remain miles apart from each other and stick to their respective coners of the bed, the situation is almost alarming. Its a clear indication for the couple to start afresh while in bed and try to come in close proximity.

Though for a happy couple sleeping while being physically close to one another is not a compulsion. Very often sexual aspects take a back seat in an honest & lively bonding. But, it is not the same case always for everyone.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Is This Love ?


Its said 'You'll never realise it when it happens', but I differ with others on this. Anyone who experiences this new, honest and strong feeling for someone for the first time in life always realize it. Love either at teenage, or as an adult or even as an elderly always brings in a gust of emotions that is bound to bring some change in one's lifestyle else you're a moron. In that case, i'll just shut up.

Many people meet their life partners for the first time and fall in love. Some of them realize it instinctly. Whereas there are some who take time realising the same while being trapped in the storm of unusual feelings.

I wonder what makes them take time to conclude this feeling as 'love'. She/ he has recently joined your office and sits next to you. Both of you gel with each other, chat often both online and offline, help each others and spend most of the time with her/his. This itself indicates that you are in love. But if you are still in doubts, just go through the following set of questions and find out the answers yourself. Here goes a check list for you..

The Clear Indication - When in love, you never wish to be away from him or her. You never want to be away from him/her and wish to be around him/her.

Restlessness Within - You are almost restless and feel uneasy if she/he is out of town or away from you.

The First Thought When You Wake Up - Won't say that she/he is always the first thought in mind in the morning, but definitely a 'yes' most of the days.

Dressing Up For the Day Just for Someone Special - Everyday you spend hours to decide which dress to wear. He/she is completely on mind while you get ready.

In Anticipation of Compliment - While everybody else in the gathering, college or office have showered you with compliments, you still wait anxiously for the compliment to come from 'your special someone'. And at last when you do, you cant stop smiling .

If you ave found all the answers are affirmative and you relate to them, you are in love for sure. Then what is it that holds you back? Feel the most beautiful feeling in the world. Spread your wings far & wide and welcome the most beautiful feeling of the world. Go express yourself in those magical words...'I Love You'..

Monday, July 27, 2009

My First Venture AS A Blogger


I know I am outdated. Atleast when it is concerned with developments and changes in the Online industry. Though the concept of blogging began long back, I have taken it up today..Lets see how long can I go with. I might sound negative, but this is how all humans are. Eveybody thinks of pros & cons and analysizes oneself before starting fresh on something. Thats what I am also doing. Nways, Here I am about to begin this blog to vent out my feelings about all that happens around me.


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