Rose Day Special - Let Love Bloom

There are times when your beloved is sad, there are times when no matter what happens you do not feel like smiling. But there is something that is sure to bring a smile back on your partner's face. Any guesses? Surely - its 'Roses'.


It's 7th of February and it is a 'ROSE day'. Rush to the nearest floweriest and get a bunch of roses. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is sad or angry with you, don't wait for things to settle down on their own. You need a pacifier and what can be better than roses. Just speak your heart out and tell each other how much your love and how incomplete you feel without one another.


Happy Rose Day!!

Weekend Romance Special-Enjoy Romance in Love Games

Has it been long since you felt like a kid? And the most important thing related to kids is playing. Can you recall that when was the last time you played any game? Blank!!! never mind. It happens with everyone and specially with couples without kids. But that doesn't mean you can't play and enjoy. Since its weekend, it's mandatory that both the partners share some romantic moments together.

Just let your romance buds bloom and your naught mind run wild. Enjoy this weekend playing games with spouse. You can choose any simple game and have fun. The twist in the game comes when you add a romantic touch to the game. Keep some rules and follow them religiously.

Here's how you play a LOVE GAME -

Choose a Game - you can choose any game. From cross words, mind games, cards, 1 minute puzzles, video games or any game for two.

Rules - Mutually decide the rules of the game.

Play - Start playing the game. Every time one looses the game, the other partner can give you a task to do.


Tasks - That's the twist that I was referring to. The partner may ask you to strip your clothes one by one. One can even ask to kiss or a smooch. The tasks can be decided on the spot or you may decide them before hand too.

THE FUN - Try playing any game and enjoy the fun. More than playing the game, you would love to win and loose it. So, just set the mood right for some love games this evening and enjoy your weekend in a special way with your spouse. Happy Playing!

Loving Him Inside Out

You thought he is no more the same guy that you married. Some may also end up concluding that their boyfriend has changed a lot and feels so different. Its no more the same bonding and love between the two of You.

Ignore the thought that has held you so hard for long. Forget the way he was earlier. May be its the responsibilities, may be its his career that has needs more attention. And that is why he has been so different all this while. Look at the positive aspect of the entire scenario - He relies on YOU so much. You hold an important place in his life and that is why he thinks he can be the way he wants to be.

Just give this point a deep thought and see how your life changes for good. Accept him with the way he is and just 'Love him inside out.'

Don't Take Professional Matters to Heart

Feeling heavy at heart because of all the scolding that you got from the boss today. Bosses expect a lot from their subordinate. They pressurize you when you they feel the pressure. That's what the bottom line is. Don't take professional matters to heart.

Weekend Romance Special - Winter The Season for Sex

It's Friday evening and weekend has almost begun. Its time to rev up your sexual life. Don't tell me that winter is something that keeps you away from indulging in love making. Rather winter is the ideal season to snuggle up each other in rugs and feel the warmth from one another.

Don't let weather play spoil sport in your sexual life. Make the most of the season and just enjoy your weekend in bed.

Be a Santa This Christmas

Since its Christmas, it had to be BIG and BLITHE.... Lets join hands to celebrate the day with happiness, bells, jingles, cakes and balloons. Leaving all our grudges aside and tensions at bay, come together and join in the celebration of fun and frolic. Be a Santa this Christmas, call your friends and plan a party. As parents, just get into the shoes of kids and enjoy the day with them, like them.

If you have annoyed someone and have had a rift with anyone, this is the time. Just let the knot loose and notice it unfold itself. Just take a first step towards your loved ones whom you have hurt some time and notice JESUS move his magic wand.


Spread Happiness around and have a very Happy and Joyous Christmas. Here is Chivalrous Clan wishing A MERRY CHRISTMAS to everyone here.

Busy in Festivals - No Time for Your Spouse

Its festive season and you have been busy doing your household chores religiously. Shopping, decoration, buying gifts, cooking and inviting guests at home - all this keeps you packed the whole day. Amidst all this, you rarely find time for your spouse. He or she is the one who is left unattended. And it is needless to say that you hardly think of romance during festivals.

You have been following this schedule for years now. But did you ever realize that your spouse might be feeling left out. Give it a thought and stay tuned for next post that says - 'Romance During Festivals Adds to Celebration'.

Romance While House Warming

I was away for a week as I had to shift my house. That was the reason for the delay in posting. A week long house shifting process had kept me too occupied to spare time for myself. While packing and unwinding stuffs at home took most of my time, the rest of hours were lost in getting the interiors of the new house designed.

It does happen with all of us. And what is also common amongst us is that we hardly find time for romance while shifting our houses. But despite the fact that I was damn busy, I had my share of romantic moments. Thanks to my darling boyfriend. His romantic ideas stole my heart, obviously once again. Here are some of the romantic ideas that he tried during my house warming. You can try them too. Here they go....


Order Food & Enjoy a Candle Light Dinner - Your beloved must be tired packing or unpacking. Order her favorite food and keep it a surprise for her. Arrange a small table and decorate the room with some flowers and candles. Keep the table ready with delicious food. Surprise her and dine together. Soft instrumental music will add to the romantic mood of the room.


Rub Your Partner's Shoulders - Nothing feels greater than a small neck & shoulder massage when you are tired. Rub your partner's shoulder to make him or her relax. That is one of the ways of being romantic.



Pull Her to a Corner & Give Her a Warm Hug - Let your romantic soul come alive. Whenever you get time, look out for an opportunity when you can take her into your arms and take her to a corner. Kiss and hug her. Express your feelings to her. Honestly, girls love it when you are naughty.


Shower Her with Hugs & Kisses Every Now and Then - Your partner will not feel the stress of so much work both at home or outside, if you stand by his/ her side. Just shower your love and kisses at short intervals if you are near by. Your love and care will add sparks to your romantic life.

Go explore new ways of romancing. Whether married or unmarried, romance is necessary amongst couples. So set the mood and let romance be in air.

Play In Rain

None of us are that old to play. Are We? Definitely not and why let age be a barrier in having fun through play. If its been long that you had some thrilling exciting moments with your family and kids, its time now. Get into your sports shoes and just set yourself free from inhibitions. Go out and just play in rain.

Rain - Fills You with Thrill - As you get into the ground to play in rain, you will feel the drops having a charismatic effect on you. Playing in rain fills you with thrill. No matter what is your age, you tend to feel young. Experience it for yourself if you don't believe me.

Take Your Kids Out Along With You - Kids love to play in rain and run around. Accompany your children in rain and play with them. Playing in rain with family is a interesting activity that helps you bond better with your family.

Let Mud be a Part of You - When it rains, do not just enjoy the rain drops rather also let mud be a part of you. Go out to play in nearby playground or park. Its fun to play in rain & mud with friends, children and even siblings. It makes you nostalgic and infuses a sense of fun, mischievousness and playfulness.

Splash in Rain water - Nothing beats the feeling of jumping in a small pool of rainwater in digs on broken roads. Let the child in you come alive again. Splash in rain water and play like kids.

Ideal Reason for Couples to Enjoy Together - I can agree that you might not find it comfortable playing in rain in a park or playground. But, if you have a private lawn or a secluded backyards, then just don't wait. Run to get wet with your partner in your arms. Just play in rain without being intimate. Couples either married or dating just love to spend time playing in rain.

Try Different Games - Go for different outdoor games in rain. Football is most preferred in rain. Adults, elderly or even small children like playing football in rain. You may also opt for other games basketball, throw ball or more.

Besides Fun, Playing in Rain is also a Good Exercise - If you thought playing in rain was merely a fun activity then get your facts corrected. Playing in rain charges up your body. Running around and hip hopping is also a good physical exercise.

Play the Tourist For Her - Weekend Romance Specials

Weekends are special and they should remain that way. But your small inputs will make the weekends more special. Discover the all new way of romance. If your wife or girlfriend loves to travel, what can be better that spending the weekend traveling and staying at a hotel. Just take her out to visit the city or nearby tourist spots. There can be a number of places she may not have been to. Feel her nerve and plan this special weekend to lighten up romance in life.

Keep It a Surprise - The first rule when you plan a weekend is to keep it a surprise. Surprise in romance is very special to keep the charm intact.

Love and Rain

Ever thought that what is it that interrelates love to rain? Why does every youth, and why zero down on youth only, rather every person in love is almost in love with the rainy season too. Its natural and human to all of us. Lovebirds will definitely confide in me to say that rainy season definitely gives them a nostalgic feeling. Its all together a marvelous and heart stirring feeling to get drenched to enjoy the rain along with your partner.

A thought on the unusual co relation between the two different subjects would give you the answer itself. Both love and rain are beautiful and natural expressions. While the former is an expression for humans, whereas the latter is for nature. Love and rain bring in its fold unfathomable happiness, excitement and even sadness.

Its true that almost all couples in the world love rains or rainy season in some way or the other. I am in love too and love to enjoy every drop of rain. From incessant rains, lightening, cool breeze to thunderstorms all reflect the moods of nature and definitely stir my mood swings too.

Is Sex More of a Task than Pleasure?

Did that leave you in thoughts for a while? If so, its human and happens with most of the people around us. For most of the married couples, sex becomes more of a task at some point in life and pleasure takes a back seat.

Most of the married couples would confide in saying that sex has become more of task for them. And ask them why, pat comes the reply because their partner wants sex and they just can't say 'no'. This situation is more common with women. After few years of marriage, they loose interest in sexual activities resulting in either a disturbed married life or just stretching their married life. When talking about women, you cannot rule out the possibility for the same for men. Many men also get bored of sex and make love just for the sake of doing it for their partner.



Why Does Sex Become a Task

Its more of Forced Sex Most of the Time - Thats the actual cause why it turns out to be a task. Anything that is forced on you tends to become a task that you need to complete. It happens so with sex too. Amongst married couples, initially sex is forced on woman by the man. Any woman does not like it and hence what results is a forced activity that becomes a task for her.

Monotony in Sex - Lack of knowledge about sex brings in stagnation and a major cause to loose interest in the same. Everyone likes excitement, pleasant surprises and a sense of newness. Sexual activities carried out in the same way without any thrills actually make it monotonous for many.

One of the Partners is More Demanding - Pleasure takes a backseat in sexual activities when either the male or female has a bent for sex. Though its not forced sex, but if one of the partners becomes more demanding, the other has to at times indulge in sex unwillingly.

Sex is Just Not About Intercourse, There is More To It - And that is foreplay and afterplay. Its important as it keeps the excitement level high. One needs to be involved in some or the other kind of foreplay rather than bumping into each other for intercourse. And post intercourse, afterplay is also vital. This helps in building a strong bond between the couples and keeping the fire alive.

Responding to Body's Physical Needs, Despite of Shortage of Time for Each Other - Every man or woman's bodies have their needs that need to be satisfied. That is the case in many couples. Though one does not have much time for each other, it becomes almost necessary to fulfill sexual needs of your own body. Shortage of time then leads you to spend less time with your partner. And then makes making love a task for you.

Reasons Why Husbands Change After Marriage

In the previous post, I quickly ran over some of the common problems or moreover behavioral issues that wives face with their husbands post marriage. Now, it would be completely biased if I do not throw some light on the husband's condition or you can say on the reasons behind their behavioral changes. Here is what the husbands have to say in defense to these complaints and allegations.

Sex has Taken A Back Seat - I know it is only the second thing after compatibility that keeps a couple happy together. But definitely sex is important for both the partners. Our sexual life is almost at stake as she never seem to be interested in it. We almost sleep apart and my wife does nothing to seduce me. I have always been co-operative and soft about sex. But still wonder what has made her say no to sex?

Lack of Excitement - One of the husbands believed that it is not his behavior, but more of his wife's behave that has changed after marriage. She seems to be too cool sans any excitement. Earlier she was a power woman always ready to greet you and new challenges with a smile. Now she seemed to be so boring. Where has the excitement gone?

She is Always Shabbily Dressed - Her beauty and dressing sense was what I lost my heart on at the first instance. Look at her now, she is always in her old night gown and her hair is always untidy. I gift her the best of dresses every now and then, but they are all piled up in her cupboard. Doesn't she know men love pretty women and she was one. I love her still but her attire and looks doesn't make my heart pound.

Television Soap Operas Are All That She Talks About - Intelligence was her virtue and pre-marriage she almost left me fumbling for words in any kind of debate & discussions. I loved talking to her on anything under the sun. What is left for now is just mere stupid daily soaps. She watches them day and night and if she talks she discusses them with me. God, save me.

No Time For Me - Wonder, what has made her so different. She has become one of those women who gossip whole day in neighbourhood or on phone. If she is left with anytime apart from back fence talking, her household chores keeps her busy. In just a few months of marriage, she does not find any time to spend it with me.

I Too Need Space - People, I was and I am still an individual . Why does she blame that I spent time out with friends. I never asked her to seclude herself and not meet her friends. I need some space where I can hang out with friends. I love to spend some time with my old friends and I guess there is nothing wrong with that. My wife needs to understand that.

Is This Love ?

Its said 'You'll never realise it when it happens', but I differ with others on this. Anyone who experiences this new, honest and strong feeling for someone for the first time in life always realize it. Love either at teenage, or as an adult or even as an elderly always brings in a gust of emotions that is bound to bring some change in one's lifestyle else you're a moron. In that case, i'll just shut up.

Many people meet their life partners for the first time and fall in love. Some of them realize it instinctly. Whereas there are some who take time realising the same while being trapped in the storm of unusual feelings.


I wonder what makes them take time to conclude this feeling as 'love'. She/ he has recently joined your office and sits next to you. Both of you gel with each other, chat often both online and offline, help each others and spend most of the time with her/his. This itself indicates that you are in love. But if you are still in doubts, just go through the following set of questions and find out the answers yourself. Here goes a check list for you..

The Clear Indication - When in love, you never wish to be away from him or her. You never want to be away from him/her and wish to be around him/her.

Restlessness Within - You are almost restless and feel uneasy if she/he is out of town or away from you.

The First Thought When You Wake Up - Won't say that she/he is always the first thought in mind in the morning, but definitely a 'yes' most of the days.

Dressing Up For the Day Just for Someone Special - Everyday you spend hours to decide which dress to wear. He/she is completely on mind while you get ready.

In Anticipation of Compliment - While everybody else in the gathering, college or office have showered you with compliments, you still wait anxiously for the compliment to come from 'your special someone'. And at last when you do, you cant stop smiling .

If you ave found all the answers are affirmative and you relate to them, you are in love for sure. Then what is it that holds you back? Feel the most beautiful feeling in the world. Spread your wings far & wide and welcome the most beautiful feeling of the world. Go express yourself in those magical words...'I Love You'..

My First Venture AS A Blogger

I know I am outdated. Atleast when it is concerned with developments and changes in the Online industry. Though the concept of blogging began long back, I have taken it up today..Lets see how long can I go with. I might sound negative, but this is how all humans are. Eveybody thinks of pros & cons and analysizes oneself before starting fresh on something. Thats what I am also doing. Nways, Here I am about to begin this blog to vent out my feelings about all that happens around me.

Cheers!!