Learning from Each Other

Being in a relationship, there are several things one can possibly do for nurturing one's relationship. Its important that both the partners understand each other for a compatible and strong bonding.

Its important that the partners on both the ends should have strong feelings for each other. Many a times, couples find it difficult to stick to each other despite being in love. While one of them is too patient, the other might be aggressive. Living in a nuclear family and packed with work, one may not find time to discuss the problems at home with an elder person and seek advice.



Observe & Learn from Each Other

You may not be an expert at solving problems, but your partner may be a complete show stealer. He or she may find solutions in a moment. Don't get bogged down by his or her expertise in doing anything, rather just observe quietly and learn the art of problem solving.

You could have be a zero tolerance attitude, but your partner might just be the coolest person in the entire world. Such a variation might be dangerous for a relationship. The best way one can work towards a smoother relationship is by learning various attributes from each other.

Soaked in Love-Keeping Memories Fresh in Mind

Hope you had a wonderful kiss day, hug day and definitely a very special Valentine's day. Now that many special days have past and its time for you to preserve the memories of these days. Its important to value your love always and understand that how lucky your are to be someone's beloved. Days gone by will never come back. One will definitely enjoy the promise day, rose day and valentine's day next year, but will not be able to live the same moments again. Things may be better next time, but for that you need to wait for one long year. :)

Its been a raining love everywhere and your are soaked in love. All you need to do to cherish your love moments is to keep the memories fresh in mind. Just live the moment as it will never come again in life.

Promises to Keep

Meant to be broken, why do they hold an important place in any relationship? Whether its the relation of a couple in love or of a child and father, be it any relation, promises are a part of everyone's life. Here is a poem that I have loved for long and felt like sharing this today on Promise Day.

I promise to be your warm spot to cuddle up to
when you feel cold
I promise
to be your soft place to land if you
should fall
I promise to be the first
one to say I am sorry
(even if I was right)
I promise to be there for
you in all of your times of
joy and sorrow
I promise to support you no
matter what your
decision (even if I don't agree )
I promise to make a
new memory with you each
and every day
I promise to love you without change

I promise to make you laugh
I promise to make you cry
I promise to give
you strength when you are weak
I promise to love you forever
I promise
to cherish you and your love
I promise to compromise with you
I promise
to make you and our children my first
priority
I promise to never take
your love for granted
I promise to never lose faith in you
I promise to
never give you a reason to distrust me
I promise to always trust you
I promise to work with you to resolve our conflicts
I promise to always be
proud of you
I promise to never let you feel alone in this world
I promise
to find new ways everyday to keep the
fires of passion burning
I promise
to be the best mom I can to our children
I promise to always keep you as
an equal partner
I promise to never say things to you in anger
I promise
to be your partner for life
I promise to be your shelter from the storm

I promise you a love everlasting.

Making a promise on the Promise Day, ".......Together again

It would feel so good to be

In your arms

Where all my journeys end....."

Have a Happy 'Promise' Day!!

Rose Day Special - Let Love Bloom

There are times when your beloved is sad, there are times when no matter what happens you do not feel like smiling. But there is something that is sure to bring a smile back on your partner's face. Any guesses? Surely - its 'Roses'.


It's 7th of February and it is a 'ROSE day'. Rush to the nearest floweriest and get a bunch of roses. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is sad or angry with you, don't wait for things to settle down on their own. You need a pacifier and what can be better than roses. Just speak your heart out and tell each other how much your love and how incomplete you feel without one another.


Happy Rose Day!!

Weekend Romance Special-Enjoy Romance in Love Games

Has it been long since you felt like a kid? And the most important thing related to kids is playing. Can you recall that when was the last time you played any game? Blank!!! never mind. It happens with everyone and specially with couples without kids. But that doesn't mean you can't play and enjoy. Since its weekend, it's mandatory that both the partners share some romantic moments together.

Just let your romance buds bloom and your naught mind run wild. Enjoy this weekend playing games with spouse. You can choose any simple game and have fun. The twist in the game comes when you add a romantic touch to the game. Keep some rules and follow them religiously.

Here's how you play a LOVE GAME -

Choose a Game - you can choose any game. From cross words, mind games, cards, 1 minute puzzles, video games or any game for two.

Rules - Mutually decide the rules of the game.

Play - Start playing the game. Every time one looses the game, the other partner can give you a task to do.


Tasks - That's the twist that I was referring to. The partner may ask you to strip your clothes one by one. One can even ask to kiss or a smooch. The tasks can be decided on the spot or you may decide them before hand too.

THE FUN - Try playing any game and enjoy the fun. More than playing the game, you would love to win and loose it. So, just set the mood right for some love games this evening and enjoy your weekend in a special way with your spouse. Happy Playing!

Talking to Each Other on Bedside

Busy is he and busy is me, then where do we find glee? A problem common amongst couples especially in urban lifestyle. If you have been in years of relationship, then it gets difficult at times to find new ways to express your love. At times, you feel completely lost and don't know how to be romantic despite wanting to do so.

Being romantic is not just offering gifts, giving surprises or making love to your partner. There is much more to it. On that note, couples would admit to the fact that 'the most important thing in romance is spending time with each other'. Its a month of love and that's why some special ways to make each other feel special. Here is another romantic idea for all couples.



Relax and Talk
Often on weekend, couples wake up early or late in hurry to finish off chores. Be different this weekend. Just finish your pending chores a night before so that you have a peaceful mind. When you wake up next morning, don't get up instantly. Lie on your bedside and chat for hours. Don't discuss work or relatives. Just ensure that you feel for your partner and speak your heart out. Tell each other that it was long since you wanted to be with your beloved and how you feel at the moment. Talking on bedside while lying close to one another will rejuvenate you.

Talk all Night Long
Couples often make love and feel they have been romantic enough. But next day, they feel no different and do not feel refreshed. Having sex often is not always satisfying. It becomes more of a job. Then just let your tight knots go loose. Keep yourself ready for a night to talk. Just talk to each other on bedside. Share jokes and laugh with each other... Set the mood right for a romantic night with soothing lights and some snacks on your side tables. ...Try this romantic idea for your beloved. Don't forget to share your experience with us.. Talk to each other on Bedside... Happy Romantic Talking.. :)

Loving Him Inside Out

You thought he is no more the same guy that you married. Some may also end up concluding that their boyfriend has changed a lot and feels so different. Its no more the same bonding and love between the two of You.

Ignore the thought that has held you so hard for long. Forget the way he was earlier. May be its the responsibilities, may be its his career that has needs more attention. And that is why he has been so different all this while. Look at the positive aspect of the entire scenario - He relies on YOU so much. You hold an important place in his life and that is why he thinks he can be the way he wants to be.

Just give this point a deep thought and see how your life changes for good. Accept him with the way he is and just 'Love him inside out.'

A Month of Love

I often hear people saying that valentine's day is nothing special for them. For them, everyday is a valentine's day, every day is a day for him or her everyday is a day for love...bla bla bla bla.... I never disagree but to some extent. For me, everyday is a day of love, but this day is definitely special. Special!! Why?? Special because this day I make sure at least on this day I do not hurt him or anyone around me. It's a day of love and I ensure that I don't do anything that makes anyone sad.

If you agree with me or have the same opinion as mine, then follow me here for some love special posts for the entire month of February. You may think, as why did I start three days in advance. A simple reason - February just has 28 days and I wanted to make this month of love complete with 31 days.

So just get ready for some notes, tips and feelings dipped in love. No regrets, no complaints, no negative shades of life and lifestyle. It would be raining love the entire month. Therefore, just hold your heart tight and make sure you don't fall in love by the end of February. With Love :)

Don't Take Professional Matters to Heart

Feeling heavy at heart because of all the scolding that you got from the boss today. Bosses expect a lot from their subordinate. They pressurize you when you they feel the pressure. That's what the bottom line is. Don't take professional matters to heart.

Weekend Romance Special - Winter The Season for Sex

It's Friday evening and weekend has almost begun. Its time to rev up your sexual life. Don't tell me that winter is something that keeps you away from indulging in love making. Rather winter is the ideal season to snuggle up each other in rugs and feel the warmth from one another.

Don't let weather play spoil sport in your sexual life. Make the most of the season and just enjoy your weekend in bed.

Relations & Rapport At Work - Tips for Handling Work Pressure

Well, when I talk about nurturing relations, it does not restrict me to talk about personal relations only. Apart from our family life, we spent a major share of time at work. And therefore it becomes almost mandatory to have healthy rapport with colleagues and definitely with the seniors.

But all gets shattered and shaken when we have are in a sea of work pressure, dieing to breathe and struggling hard to save ourselves from drowning. Immense work pressure and inability to handle it leaves a bad impression on your boss which actually affects the relation between them.

I had a bad day today at work, but then I ensured I remain calm to handle the mounting work pressure. Here I am sharing the tips that I followed to handle the work pressure.

Always Maintain a Professional Standpoint - Make sure you never lose your professionalism. Try maintaining a professional standpoint. Work the way you always do.

Do not Avoid Your Boss - Avoiding your boss may lead to more problems at work. In a situation when, you had a tiff with your boss, ensure that you do not avoid talking to them.

Never Decrease Your Production Level - The loss in production will all the more aggravate the anger of seniors and top guns. Remember however disturbed you are, never cut short on your production level.

Control Your Emotions - That's the key to handle any kind of work pressure. Sounds easy, but is actually more difficult than that. (Trust me even I am very bad at it). But if you can keep a control on your emotions both anger and tension, you know you have handled the situation well. Wish you never have a bad day at work. God Forbid, if you have tension at work - try these ways to handle excess work pressure.

Love Notes - To Keep The Romance Alive

Not just wonderful way to express your feelings for your sweetheart, LoVe NoTeS and even Love Letters are the most simplest way to keep romance intact. For many lovebirds, love letters have been replaced by a sms, a mail or even by a Facebook or Orkut scrapbook. But the real essence of romance comes only from a handwritten romantic notes on a piece of paper. Don't believe me? Just try these romantic love messages ideas to see the sparkle in her eyes.

Leave a Romantic Love Making Note in the Bathroom for Her - Tell her how eagerly you will wait for the evening when you can meet her for romantic love making evening.

Leave a Small Love Note Under Her Pillow for Her to See in the Morning - Use your imagination and describe how beautiful she looked while sleeping and how much you love her. Your small note will make a huge impact and will help your relationship nurture and strengthen.

A Love Phrase for Her in Her Purse - Quietly slip in a small love letter in her money purse. She would be all surprised and overwhelmed with this gesture. Try doing it, but make sure let it be a surprise. And be ready to receive a surprise call or message from her side too.


Keep Her Breakfast Ready with A Romantic Note - Give Her a Break from Everyday Chores and prepare breakfast for her. Just plug in a small love note with the breakfast. I can vouch for it that she would love you for the love letter more than for preparing the breakfast.

Tips for Tolerating His Temper

Men by nature are more aggressive than women. Exceptions are always there, but the hard core fact is that men are more short tempered than their female counterparts. Anger is common amongst men and many couples face the problem of handling anger in their relationship. Many wives and even girlfriends find it difficult to control their men when they flare up. Here are some quick tips to tolerate his temper and help him calm down.

Remain Calm When He is Loud & Angry - That's definitely the first and foremost thing. You must have a certain level of patience to do so. If the wife or girlfriend gets angry too while the husband or boyfriend is still angry, the situation is bound to go out of control.

Mutually Decide a Signal to Aware Him of His Anger - If your man has recognized and realized that he is short tempered and has a problem, then it has become actually easy for both of you to control it. May be both of you can work out a signal for his temper. Whenever he is angry and is almost ready to flare up, you can give him a signal. The signals may either be a song, a whistle or few pre-decided words.

Do not Tolerate His Temper Always - As I said earlier, that it is not wise to reply back or counter him whenever he gets angry. But friends, it is equally important for you to make him understand that he is wrong on his part. Do not make it a habit to tolerate his temper whether it is justified or a baseless one. The next time you boyfriend gets angry and aggressive, do not stay quiet or argue. Make it clear that he is wrong and just walk out of the room. Let him know that he has hurt you.

Nagging Nature - Warning Signs

Since I wrote about some warning signs for those in a relationship, I guess mentioning the warning signs of being a nagging girlfriend or wife would definitely be welcomed. To some extent I could relate myself with this subject as for past few months even I have transformed into a nagging girlfriend. But fortunately I was alarmed by my behavior myself before being told by my boyfriend.

Nagging in a relationship can actually be a barrier between the couples. It is for both the partners to understand that nagging by husband or the wives (mostly) can be justified at times. But nagging as a habit day and night is for sure a mood spoiler. Now before I prolong it any more, here are few signs for females to improve their behavior with their men.

You Call Your Boyfriend Every Hour for Some Chores - The moment he picks up phone, he says ' I remember I have to deposit money in the bank tomorrow'. You have been like a nagging wife or a girlfriend if this scenario relates to you. You are for sure on the roads of a nagging world if you call up your boyfriend every now and then to remind about some work.


Telling Him to Join Gym - He has been looking weak for some time and you think joining gymnasium would help him recover. Therefore you nag and nag. You never miss an opportunity to tell him its all because he does not exercise.

You Have Problem If He Sleeps Till late in the Morning - Rather than wishing him 'Good morning', you say - is this the time to get up? Girls by nature are more alert and prompt for their daily chores and activities. Therefore, they start nagging when they their partner is lazy or slow in his work. Most of the men complain of their wife's or girlfriend's behavior if the men sleep late till morning.

Complains are What Your Daily Telephonic Talks Comprise of - If you are a nagging wife, its very for you to figure this out. You need 'no warning sign'. It is evident. Evident from your conversation with your partner. All your telephonic conversation comprises of complains and you keep cribbing all the time.

You Do Not Miss a Chance to Point Out His Mistake - That becomes a girl's favorite pass-time. if you are a nagging girlfriend, you keep your brain's search engine working all the time to point out his mistakes. Whether small mistake or big blunder, you never ignore any of them.

You Keep Reminding Him of the Promise which He Could Not Keep Years Ago - It was a small promise that he could not keep and you have not forgiven him years later. Your nagging nature is evident from your behave, if you keep reminding him of his promise that he could keep.

It's an old saying that 'If you realize your mistake, you are almost forgiven.' So if you have discovered a nagging wife or girlfriend in yourself, you have taken the first step. All you need to do is work on it slowly BUT Steadily.

Quick, Easy and Special Halloween Gifts For Men - Weekend Special

Its Halloween today and it just struck me that I should gift something special to the man in my life - my boyfriend. Halloween though is not popular and isn't celebrated throughout the world, I feel there is no problem to choose it as a reason to have celebrations at home. After all, its weekend and everyone has the right to celebrate. While I opted for a sweet and special gift for my boyfriend, even you can rush to buy something that would make his weekend special. Here are some easy and attractive gifts ideas for Men on this Halloween.

Mini jack-o-lanterns Looking Fresh Strawberry - You can make them at home. They are easy to make and would definitely amaze your man. Treat him this weekend with these special strawberries. Just dip fresh strawberries in chocolate paste and nuts and garnish them to look like mini -jack-o-lanterns.

I bet your boyfriend or husband would love this special gift. Light some candles in your room and get into your romantic shoes to make his weekend really special. Serve him with mini jack-o-lanterns looking fresh strawberries.

Hot & Horror Movies Collection - Most men love to watch horror and hot movies. Just go to your near by shop and choose some really good horror movies. If you want just add in some hot movies CDs too.

Sarcasm In A Relationship - Keep It At Bay

Your relationship is at stake, if you involve a lot of sarcasm in your talks. Men have a lot of ego that is basically woven into their nature. No offenses to anyone, but they have this habit of commenting sarcastically on everything around.

If my views are to be taken into account, then sarcasm is one of the few things that will surely put an end to a relationship. Though sarcasm is just a form of commenting on anything rather than joking, it has more of negativity involved when used in a relationship.


Men though do not mean much when they pass a sarcastic comment on their partner, but at the same time it is also true that they hardly realize the impact of their words. For them, it might be a joke but it's possible that person on the receiving end might not like it resulting in rise of repercussions. Taking instance of a married couple, often the husband enjoys giving a witty remark on his wife's parents. While some women have learned to take it easily, others get hurt.

Being just a sneering or cutting remark, I do not say sarcasm should not be a part of life, but definitely one should watch their words and MORE THAN THAT THEIR TONE of saying anything sarcastically. After all your relationship might be at stake.

Anger - The Last Word in a Relationship

Short tempered by nature, I have had the taste of loss in a relationship due to my anger. Being in a state finding it difficult to control my anger, I have often paid the price for it.

Talking about anger, its important that we speculate and find out the reasons behind our anger. Below are the few reasons that actually disappoint boys and girls and irritate them to the extenet of getting angry.

• 'No' to AnyThing of Desire
• Rude Behaviour of Partner
• Acceptance And Later Denial of Anything
• Preaching of the Partner
• Ignorance

Forget Your Grudges On Weekends

Ever wondered why do we have Weekends? Yes the obvious is that we need a break from work and some rest at home. But what's more important is that we remain at peace. Life is too short for quarrels and rifts. While we spent most of our time running around and its almost human for all of us to behave rudely at times....We understand ..But weekends are not for such pity things ....

Wasting Weekends - there are couples who do not realise the importance for these days. they spend time fighting over trivial matter. Some even go to the extent of referring to some arguments that happened long ago. Why waste your weekend that way?? lets bygones be bygones...

Stop The Blame Game - Throwing the ball in others' ceourt is easy. It feels worse when you are at home in solace and your partner blames you for frivolous things.

Misunderstandings to be Understood Later - Stay together at home and you have a lot of free time..there are chances that any of the partners starts a heated coversation. But make sure you do not waste it in clarifying any misunderstandings.

Add More Energy and Zeal to Your Relationship on Weekends - Bond together with your spouse or your sweetheart and make the most of it. Give him & her loads of hugs and kisses. Snuggle each other, smile, laugh and make her world around a lot merrier for yourself...

Enjoy your Weekend...They Are Precious.

Get Into Her Shoes This Saturday

Your darling puts in so much effort to make your life simpler and has made your life beautiful with her presence. While surprises are common for you from her side, Just go out of the way do something different for her. Make her feel special this saturday.

Just give her a break - make her relax. She must be tired of managing things alone...let her sit at home and enjoy this weekend, while you manage the home for her.

Take Her Out For Special Weekends - Its been long that both of you travelled for long or spend some time tohether. Plan few days ahead or almost spontaneously. Take her to her favourite place or go spend some time in country side.

Try anything, I am sure your wife or girlfriend will love any and all of them....Give her a Treat This Saturday. Just notice the change in her, See your love blossom and spread its fragrance around.. Enjoy!! :)

Make His Weekend Special

Love amongst couples is not just about making love. Its more about geling with each other!! If you feel the charisma between both of you have been lost somewhere, then its time for you to ignite some spark. And since its a friday, you have all the time to rejuvenate him with your love. So just make the most of this weekend and set his pulse racing...

Shed Your Inhibitions - He is your soulmate, why leave space for any inhibitions. Forget the world behind. Your passion for him will definitely reflect in all your moves and efforts.

Give A thought On What He Likes - Sit quietly for few minutes to recap on things that he liked or still has interest in. It can either be anything under the sun.

Look Sexy - Dress up in a sexy evening gown. Pay special attention to your make up. Keep it light yet sparkling. Choose a dress that looks best on you. He is sure to go mad again after you.

Decorate Your home With Candles - When he comes home this Friday evening, give him a surprise. Let the electric bulbs and chandelier be switched off. Lighten every corner with beautiful candles. Beautiful lighting is an easy way to attract your husband's attention.

Make Him Feel Nostalgic - If its been long that you had a look at your wedding album together, this is the best time. Sit with him, when he relaxed. Photographs have the power to turn any and everyone nostalgic. Try recalling some beautiful memories and share them with him. Just notice the smile on his face. Your magic is working on him.

Lie Down in A Bathtub With Him - Before he is home, get the bathtub ready with fresh cold water. Add some rosewater and rose petals to it. You may also add some mild and refreshing soap gel to the water in tub. When he has come back home, eat together. Post dinner just lie down in the bath tub with him. Spend some time together enjoying the romantic moments to fullest.

Most of the time, our hectic lifestyle eats up all the pleasures of life. Make sure the huff and puff does not affect your relation with your spouse. Small efforts in relationships make a huge difference...Think of Something That would Excite Him This Weekend and will make it Memorable for Him for Lifetime....Happy Weekend....